Let’s Just Get Through This

Here’s a thought experiment. Suppose that you possessed a magic ball from which dangled a tiny magic thread. Furthermore, suppose that when you tugged on that magic thread, you could skip to a later time in your life. If you tugged a little on the thread, little time would pass; if you tugged a lot, much time would pass.

In light of our current pandemic, political tensions, and economic challenges—given the chance, would you pull on such a magic thread in order to fast-forward your life to exactly one year from today? More to the point that I’m hoping to address, are you, perchance, simply trying to endure each day with the hope that this all will be over soon? Or have you learned how to live life rooted in Christ and dependent upon His Spirit despite the difficulties?

My thought experiment was prompted by a fairy tale I read to my children many years ago known as The Magic Thread.[1] The story centers upon a discontented boy named Peter, who is given the gift of a magic ball by an old woman he encounters in the forest. Whenever Peter faces discomfort in his life, he tugs a bit on the magic thread, and thereby transports himself to a moment in the future. How distant a moment depends upon how much string Peter pulls out of the ball.

In this manner, Peter bypasses most of the difficult periods of his life, but he also misses the benefits of living through tough times. As an old man—now lacking direct memories of half his life—Peter chances upon the same old woman in the forest, who, for some reason, decides to grant him one magical wish. What do you imagine he wishes for? His wish is to live his life again as if for the first time, but without the magic ball. He wants to experience the hard periods of life as well as the joyful periods. He wants to be formed by the difficulties as well as the blessings.

“Let’s just get through this period.” Do you sometimes think thoughts like this? If given the chance, would you fast-forward your life to one year from now?

If you find yourself simply enduring each day rather than living your days for God’s glory, will you allow me to gently challenge you to consider your ways? When a person simply tries to grit his or her way through a difficult period—rather than leaning into the spiritual sustenance provided by the Word of God, the people of God, and the Spirit of God—that person often misses out on what could become a key period of growth. The current period of testing could prove to be spiritually significant for many of us on account of the fact that God forms his people into mature, faithful, God-honoring people through suffering when they learn to deeply rely on him.

The Apostle Paul and his band of missionaries suffered a dreadful trial during their stay in “Asia” (modern-day western Turkey). We do not know for sure what they experienced, but Paul described it using such dark words as “burdened excessively,” “beyond our strength,” “so that we despaired even of life,” “we had the sentence of death within ourselves,” and “so great a peril of death.” But Paul also added the crucial clarification that God permitted it “so that we would not trust in ourselves, but in God who raises the dead” (2 Corinthians 1:8-10).

God cares more that we become people characterized by deep and abiding—even radical—trust in God than he does that we live comfortable lives. In fact, our loving Heavenly Father is intent on training us in how to live lives characterized by Spirit-driven, Word-saturated, God-glorifying trust, even as we undergo whatever we are enduring today.

Brothers and sisters, let us seek not simply to clench our jaws, grit our teeth, and “just get through it.” Let us welcome God’s gift of grace in allowing suffering into our lives in order to draw us into a deep and abiding trust in God.

[1] “The Magic Thread,” in The Book of Virtues: A Treasury of Great Moral Stories, ed. William J. Bennett (New York: Simon & Schuster, 1993), 57-63. Note that when I first read this story to my young daughters, it freaked them out a bit. But neither have they forgotten its lesson to this day.

2 thoughts on “Let’s Just Get Through This

  1. Do you have a story about going back in time so I can change the bad choices or decisions I’ve made that have created difficult times now?
    Regarding your comments about radical trust in God during tough times. Paul is a great example on how to do that.
    Is the recipe for radical trust spending time with God and his Word and complete surrender? I’m encouraged by Gods Word, but I grow weary when things don’t change and life is too busy.
    Radical trust sounds wonderful but what suggestions do you propose to get there?


    1. Thanks for your comment, Phil. Let me briefly reply to each of your two questions, but only briefly since this is just a comments section:
      1. There is no way to undo bad choices or decisions of the past, but God is way big enough to take whatever mess you have made in the past and redeem it all. Paul described himself as the chief of sinners because he persecuted the church of God. God not only forgave Paul, he took the broken and willful person he was (persecutor and all), and shaped Paul into the man of God we know him to be from the Scriptures. God’s purposes are not done for you, Phil. I have watched people use the latter years of people’s lives powerfully. He can do this with/for you.
      2. Concerning getting to a place of radical trust…. A life of radical trust in God is simply hundreds of tiny moments of trust strung together. You wake up and the first thing you do in a day is say, “Lord, here I am. Do with me what you will today.” You take another small step in trust that same day by spending some time in the Word of God and prayer, believing that it is not wasted but is part of the greater work God is doing in your life. You step into another moment of trust when you forgive someone who says that not-so-nice thing to you once again. And another when you choose to turn away from anger while driving or turn your eyes away from a lustful gaze. Over and over again until living with radical trust begins to characterize your life. It’s counter-cultural, I know, and people will sometimes view you as over-the-top, but Jesus calls us to die to ourselves daily and take up our crosses and follow him.


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